Yesterday after my wife told me about it's already enough...which is I really understand because it's really more than enough. It's hurt me and my wife to see them suffering like this but I just do this for their future. I want them to be independent brave.

Am I a bad grandfather?

Well definitely in their eyes I will be a bad grandfather because who wouldn't hate me? I let my granddaughters suffer instead of helping them I haven't even seen them closer since they were born and yet here I am giving them challenges in their life.

But I'm just their grandfather who wants what's the best for them....