"That's exactly what Jake said to Allison and me earlier," I said.

"It's sure been life changing for me," she said, as we entered the main area and I noticed first thing that we were in a bar with mostly black patrons, although there were a few white women present as well.

I asked, "What kind of bar are you taking me to?"

"A perfect one," Mom said, taking my hand and leading me in.

"Connie," a voice called out. "I'm happy you could make it."

I turned and saw Jake at a booth with another young black guy. I waved to him awkwardly as Mom tugged me towards them....