Now, I should've been pissed-off about all of this, but I was exhausted and I was nervous about my work meeting. So, I left.

While driving to work, I remembered her words, "You don't want to know." It came back to me where I had heard those words before. I few weeks earlier, I had gone out drinking with some guys and we had gone to a strip club and I had gotten a lap dance. When she heard about that from one of the other wives and asked me about it, I said "You do not want to know."

I also reflected that I had fooled around myself since...