Marriage is a sacred ceremony that essentially unites two hearts and of course two people to build a new life together. During his 35 years of life, Ezra actually had no specific criteria or dreams of what he would like to be like and with whom to end his bachelor period.
Even today, Ezra has only had two serious relationships with women. The two relationships had to run aground for different reasons.
First, Ezra had a relationship during college for two years with one of his juniors. The relationship initially went smoothly until a third person finally appeared and Ezra had no choice but to forcibly end the relationship.
Second,...