The night I went back, I lay in bed and thought about the whole thing carefully.

I think the biggest lesson I learned from this is to calm down, put aside your emotions and think first.

This is easy to say, but difficult to do, because people are emotional animals. When something happens, the first thing to stimulate is your emotions. When you have already dealt with things with emotions, you often can not see the whole picture and essence of things.

Like this time, Liu Ruyue can come to me to discuss and solve the problem, but she loves me and refuses to let me help her shoulder such...