Although it was suggested that we come to the bar to chat, the reality is that the four of us really don't have much to talk about together because we lack common topics.

When a group of people want to talk, they have to have a common topic. For example, when men are in a pile, if they talk about women, they can talk 100 percent. If women are in a pile, gossip or men will always be the topic they enjoy.

But the four of us are a little embarrassed. I can't talk to them about women. It doesn't seem appropriate for them to gossip with me about men....