This is the day that Sid and I talked. I was about to fly to Norway. We were leaving the states and I was with Xiel. My son was next to me, holding a picture of his father and so excited that my son stood up towards me.

I ran away from Xiel to Ate. We were at a hotel near the airport and it was not far from my son's house.

"Mom, I am excited." I knelt down in front of my son and caressed his face. He really looked like his father. My son has all of Sid’s features. The only thing Xiel got from me was the...