Neil and two of his younger cousins were in the hot tub. I sat on the edge beside them, my feet dangling and hot bubbly water up most of the way to my knees. Something I learned a long time ago: my sisters are very fussy when it comes to their kitchens. Nothing wrong with that of course, wanting things to be done a certain way in yo own space. I just found that even if I tried to be helpful or contribute, I'd inevitably upset someone. So, I typically helped bring in dishes and then I stayed out of the way while they all cleaned. Did that mean they...