If you'd asked me three months ago, what I thought about putting in effort to get a woman, I'd have said I thought it was stupid. That no one should have to get themselves worked up over someone who might not want them back. 

And if you ask me that now, my answer would be the complete opposite. 

Somehow, in the past four months, my life has taken a complete u-turn. I don't recognize the man I've become. 

I've found myself catching feelings I once swore would never happen to me. I'd seen how my friends back then became when they'd "fallen in love," and I hated it. I swore...