"Do you ever argue a case?"

"No. I might sit next to Emma, my boss, and whisper ideas to her but she is the one to do the questioning and arguing."

Throughout dinner our conversations ranged far and wide. As the wine consumption went up and the second bottle was emptied, we got a little tipsy and the topics of discussion became more risqué and personal.

"Amber," asked Steff suddenly, "Tell us about your being bi. When did you figure it out...you know?"

"I never had a dramatic moment, you know, an epiphany. I just found as I went through middle and high schools that I liked boys...and girls. Some...