The story continues:

The day after my first chat with my sister, where she brought up me breeding her wife Alena, I realized I had never actually talked directly to Alena herself about this stuff. We're very good friends, so I decided to send her a text to work a few things out.

I've transcribed the text conversation below:

Me: Hey :) Kate said she'd mention to you that I thought it would be a good idea to talk directly - is that okay? And is now a good time?

A: lol yeah, probably smart. Now's good

Me: So, I guess... any thoughts?

A: I guess my main thought is...