My first love and I dated for roughly a year before a very bad breakup. It was wonderful at first, and she and I actually lost our virginity to each other. Our relationship had been souring for a few weeks, and I had reason to think she (Tiffany) was cheating on me. Tiffany and I always fought badly, and it finally ended, with me telling her "I never want to hear from you again, you fucking cunt!" when she said we could still be friends.....

I'll admit, the breakup stung even though I knew it was inevitable. I'll admit, I was headed into my junior year and decided it was...