Yvonne and I are lesbian lovers. I'm not quite sure how it came about, except to say that it started when she found some of the things I keep in my toy drawer and we ended up playing around with both them and each other. It was entirely unexpected, but it was wonderfully enjoyable experience to be so totally uninhibited for once with someone of the same sex. Even so I don't think either of us expected to become actual lovers, but that's what has happened.

One good thing that has come about because of it is the fact that I can be myself with Yvonne. I don't just mean...