I put my things on the table and the woman hurried over and said, "Take your things away, I can't take your things. I said that if I want to be self-reliant here, I must be self-reliant."

I stopped her and didn't ask her to return her things. I looked at her and said, "Don't go out like that. This is a reward for you. You deserve it. And if you really want to live here, you must learn to take good care of your body. If you break down, who will take care of the old people? How can you do a good job?"

When a woman listened to...