"When I graduated, my mother said that in the next two years, all my friends met and talked about were husbands. In a few years, all they met and talked about were children, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. When they got old, they were grandchildren.

I didn't believe it at that time. I thought that the most important thing for a person was an individual. We should put the most attention on ourselves. But the old people's words are all about experience. Eight out of ten sentences will come true.

At that time, I thought we had to get married together, get pregnant together, have children together,...