First of all, the suspender is inferior. It is extremely difficult for him to say love in itself, because he has no self-confidence, is afraid of rejection, is afraid of being ridiculed, and is more afraid of not many faces, and then completely lost.

Secondly, under the inferiority complex, the suspender is unable to determine the woman's mind. He is more afraid that if he says something, even his friends can't do it!

Love can't be said. Who knows the pain of missing? A suspender thinking day and night, inevitably more and more paranoid, dedicated to this person.

Deep attachment, inability to speak out, oppressive pain, and fear of losing...