But if we Chinese couples hear each other say they don't love themselves, they either jump up at once: Which fox spirit or little white face has captivated you? Or be heartbroken and don't want to live. Either you are unkind or I am unjust. Or slap the table and throw the stool every day and sneer at it without giving a good face. Long-term such "communication" way, eventually led to both sides more and more dare not and do not want to tell each other psychological words, what words are hidden, or ponder half a day this sentence should not say, what the consequences of speaking out, the results...