But both Cherry and her mom said it wasn't about the pain but the sensation. Then they got an elk hide flogger with nine strips in it. Again a bit of sting but a softer leather, so a different feel to the sting. Then a heavier eighteen strip buffalo leather flogger. It would give more sting than everything else they owned, but not as far as an actual whip, which Becky had said was a hard pass. It turned out anything that might burn, cut, or scar was not her thing.

Then they talked about restraints. And ended up with a whole sensory deprivation restraint kit. It contained a blind...