As expected, it was jollof rice and fried turkey. I don't know what's the connection between Nigerians and jollof. On the dining table, the three mothers sat across on the right with Cara, the girls and I sat on the left. Marvel wanted to sit with them but her mom asked her to sit with us. I saw how Marvel was uncomfortable with that but she had no choice. We had this short prayer before we started eating. "so this dinner is mainly to know what's going on in our daughter’s life. The four of you have been friends for more than 10 years now.

So let’s consider this as...