It's funny how sometimes you look at something in life and think, I could never do that. "I could never be a surfer..." or "I could never travel alone in Africa..." And then somewhere down the road, you find yourself actually doing exactly that thing. I've always enjoyed sex and sexual experimentation, but I never thought of myself as particularly "kinky". At least until I met Meg.

I met Megan ("Meg") while I was teaching at a local university. She was the T.A. for another class in my department, and had similar interests, so we hit it off right away. She was about 5'6" and had long, dark hair and...