I work for a food distributor. There are over 800 people spread over five floors. The employee mix is our nation. You know the slogan, "Equal Opportunity Employer."

After lunch I opened my intra-office mail and had a panic attack. The message read, "I hope soon I may sample your awesome wares at the club. It would even be better if you could show your wares to a very select group of my friends this evening at a card party I am hosting. Give me a call at --- --- ---- at 5:30 PM."

I had problems concentrating on my work, making one mistake after another that I had to...