"Now Brenda is asking for the same sort of understanding from you that I got from Sean. She knows it's not the most desirable situation you can find yourself in, but if you can accept her life as it exists, she'll work like a dog to make you happy. She's just hoping you'll give her a chance to prove it, before you say it's not for you. She's throwing her cards on the table and hoping you'll give her a chance. If it weren't for my own situation with my husband, she'd be telling you herself, but I thought that my husband and I had something to add to the...